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Our energy activates the same energy in others. Ever get comments that your children act like you do (whether you wanted to hear that comment or not)? Ever see families with similar energy from parents to children? Ever notice how workplaces have their own energy, whether confrontational, motivated, or calm?
Why do you think that is? What energy do you bring to others, and how does that energy activate the same energy in them? This is deeper than just being mindful not to "set someone off" with your unaware or deliberate negative behavior.
What is your energy?
This is feeling into yourself to your core, and back out again. This is feeling what energy you are and what is your regular or positively affected state of being. Are you happy? Are you enthusiastic? Are you at peace with yourself? Are you strong, yet loving?
Are you drama? You will activate drama in others around you.
Are you fear? You will activate fear in others, and people may hurt you, out of their fear.
Are you love? You will activate love in others, and be in the flow with them.
What you can do for people
What is interesting is that with all the ex-felons who were my clients, I came with trust, respect, and professionalism, and activated their trust, respect, professionalism, and flow. We could work in harmony as coach/coachee. I would notice that their relationships with others were not as harmonious. Other people would come at the same client with a different, negative energy, and activate that different, negative energy in the client.
How do you want to relate with others?
When you clear yourself out, and love others, that is what you will activate in others in return.
If you want respect, be respect and activate that in others.
If you want trust, be trust and activate that in others.
If you want excitement, be excitement and activate that in others.
If you want motivation, be motivation and activate that in others.
Create energy and motivation
When you are activated in the right direction, you will have health and positive energy. You will want to continue activating others, because you are motivated to keep feeling these great feelings.
What energy are you activating in others?
1. Be aware of my energy I project.
2. Be aware of my children's energy around me, or in general. Be aware of how others act around me.
3. How is my energy activating that same energy in them?
4. What do I notice in others when I work on projecting more positive energy?
You have the power to change yourself and others.
Published 10/16/09 at Morning Coach. |
